childhood experiences

The second topic is childhood experiences. This topic is the easiest way to build a close connection with a girl. After all, everyone has a carefree childhood, and reminiscing about it with anyone is always delightful. Hilarious stories with desk mates, card games played in small closed classes, and your favorite spicy strips from the convenience store downstairs can all stir up a girl’s nostalgia and make her more willing to open up to you. First, I showed her a video that I found hilarious. The girl said, “Haha, Ziyang and Zihao, I often come across their videos.” I replied, “I was just the one taking the fall for that buddy—he took all the limelight, and I ended up being the victim.” What do you think the girl was really thinking at that moment? Start the interaction with interesting childhood stories, share your own experiences while drawing the girl into the conversation. Then encourage her to express her feelings, for example, she might say, “To be honest, we already knew what boys were thinking when we were little, but now that we’re grown up, it just seems childish.” After that, we talked about this topic for a long time, and it gradually extended to relationships. She said, “You’re still single.” That happened to hit exactly what she wanted to complain about. Later on, I won’t go into the rest of the conversation as it involves too much private information. Anyway, by the end, I even wanted to go home, but she kept chattering away and holding me to talk more. That’s how far-reaching and helpful the topic of childhood experiences can be.