Body Language Expression | Empty City Strategy

Only in this way, when a man meets a girl he likes, can he express himself confidently, and his body language can be sincere and natural.

Make more friends of the opposite sex, and don’t be misled by the malicious slander against “players” spread by some unreasonable women. Both men and women have the right to make many friends of the opposite sex. Girls can make many male friends and select high-quality men for dating. Similarly, men also have the right to make many female friends. This is in itself a healthy attitude toward making friends; from a moral perspective, there is nothing inappropriate or worthy of condemnation about it. What’s more, many romantic relationships start out as pure friendships with no intention of dating, and feelings gradually develop as the two get to know each other.

If a man refuses to expand his circle of female friends and even gives up his right to make friends, how can he develop feelings and find a girlfriend? Even if you are new to relationships, immature, and overly emotionally driven, and you fall hard for a girl you barely talk to, the right way to pursue her is to hold back your feelings and start as ordinary friends—there is no way around the process of building a friendship first.

Therefore, if a man wants a successful first date with a girl, he must have plenty of experience making female friends before pursuing her. Only then can he display appropriate and confident body language when he meets the girl he truly likes.

If a man shuts himself off from making female friends from the very beginning, he is only ruining his own chances.