The third type is called a routine, which means catering to her preferences.
I don’t talk about this much usually, because it involves pursuing a specific girl. When we first meet a girl and get along with her, we basically focus on ourselves—everyone only cares about themselves. But if you want to win her over, the first thing you need to do is understand her. Whether it’s the topics you talk about or offline dates, you first have to figure out what she likes and what interests her. I’ve seen so many girls who won’t agree to a regular invitation at all, but once it hits her interests, it becomes incredibly easy. For example, if the girl you like enjoys skateboarding, and there happens to be a skate park downstairs, inviting her will be a breeze. Or if a girl likes watching shows, and you happen to have two tickets given by a friend for a Mahua FunAge performance that expire the day after tomorrow, tell her to come with you since it would be a waste not to go—she usually won’t refuse. In short, once you know what a girl is interested in and focus your efforts on that, it will definitely be twice the result with half the effort. However, this can come off as a bit deliberate, so the following method will reduce that impression.