The first option is a coffee shop or a milk tea shop. Here, we need to choose small beverage stores with seating space. This way, you will sit closer to each other, which is more conducive to communicating with the girl and building a closer relationship. Besides, having a drink takes less time than eating a meal, so you won’t have to sit face-to-face for too long. If the conversation gets awkward or you feel it’s about to go quiet, you can finish your drink and leave for the next activity. Also, Brother Yuan will teach you a cup test that can quickly gauge how close your relationship is.
The specific method is: first take a sip of your drink, then casually place your cup next to the girl’s, making sure she notices it. If she immediately picks up her drink and moves it somewhere else to keep a distance from your cup, it means it’s not yet time to hold her hand. On the contrary, if she allows your cup to stay close, it shows you can start trying to take the next step.